How To Have Phone Sex Using A Dating Site

Okay if you’re using a dating site then there’s a good chance you’ll end up having some phone sex at one point or another. However, let’s face it! Most guys are not that great or even remotely decent at having phone sex. That’s why they need a woman (who is a phone sex pro) to guide them through it. If you want to have a great phonesex conversation with a date then you better read this blog post in full. Doing os may mean the difference between having a successful steamy phone sex session or blowing it completely. Here are a few pointers to help you become a master on the phone. The art of phone sex isn’t easy but if you perfect it, you’ll be getting laid all the time. Your next face to face encounter will be that much more enticing if you get this stuff down.

Tips On How To Have Phone Sex Like A Pro

The first thing is to get in the right mindset and mood. That will require a few things.

Remove all distractions with low lighting – Turning off all the lights will ensure that nothing distracts you during your phone sex session. You may inadvertently focus on something and lose your train of thought. Trust men, you need to be in the zone if you want this to go smooth.

Make sure you don’t get another call – The worst thing that can happen during a phone sex call is getting another call. Either turn off your call waiting on your phone or have the session at a time when you know you won’t get another call. Someone else beeping in can be super annoying. Your dick will go soft in a matter of second and you can almost bet that you’ll lose momentum and desire.

Find your sanctuary – Besides turning off all the lights, put yourself in a comfortable place with no distractions whatsoever. That means, go to where ever your favorite place to relax might be. It helps to close your eye as well. Visualize what’s going on between you and the person you’re having phone sex with. It’s nothing but you and your parter alone.

Avoid putting on music – You may think that soft music will help, but any other sound besides the sound of your voices will only serve to distract you in the long run. You can’t afford any distractions when it comes to having sex on the telephone.

Speak in a softer tone as the phone call progresses – Start the conversation with your normal way of speaking. As the call progresses and you become more intimate, lower your tone. Don’t try to put on a sexy tone. If you lower your voice and talk sex, your voice will sound sexier naturally.

Don’t rush things – Never try to rush to the sexy stuff. Speak slowly and deliberately and let the sexiness happen naturally. You don’t want to rush anything when it comes to phone sex.

Speak names – You want to avoid making the conversation sound general or mechanical like you’re reading from a manual. Say the persons name a lot or call them by an affectionate name you made up. Make him feel like they are literally the only thing you have on your mind. You want to give the perception of being fully devoted to fucking them on this call.

Touch yourself – Touching yourself will help drive up your arousal so your sex talk comes out sounding natural and sexier.

Here are some simple examples of popular phone sex dialogue…
What are you wearing? (This is a classic and you must ask this. It’s impossible to get around.)
Where would you touch me if I was there with you?
Can I tell you my ultimate fantasy of what I would do to you if I were there with you?
Would you mind if I talked a little dirty?
Would you mind if I talked very dirty?
I’m getting aroused thinking about you right now.
What is your ultimate fantasy of what you would do to me?
I have always fantasized about what it would be like to….. would you do that with me?
Do you want it hard and fast or slow and easy?
What will you do when we meet in person? Tell me the first thing you want to do to me.

Well, that’s as simple and basic as it gets. These calls can get really fun or they can die out quickly if you both aren’t into it. It’s really all about the mutual effort of having a great phone sex call. I’ll be the first to say that I typically always try to do this or have a video sex chat before meeting in person. If I can’t do either of those things, I revert to the basic sext messaging via my dating site. As you can see, I put forth the effort to be successful at all this. It takes a little bit of effort but the pleasure is all well worth it!